Mo' Sibyl

서로를 품다| The MVPs of Suurugate Journeys: The One with a Surrogate | Episode 17 (2025)

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: 서로를 품다| The MVPs of Suurugate Journeys: The One with a Surrogate | Episode 17 (2025)

When most people think of pregnancy, they think baby names, nursery colors, and tiny clothes. For Ms. Idowu Grace Abosede, pregnancy was about giving someone else the chance to experience all of that.

In this gripping episode, we unpack her deeply personal journey through surrogacy—one she had to navigate the hard way, using her own body as the lesson. That journey became the catalyst for founding Boblu’nd Gray Surrogacy Agency, where she now advocates for safe, ethical, and compassionate surrogacy in Nigeria.

Ms. Idowu shares the emotional and physical toll of being a surrogate and exposes the wide gap in protections for surrogates in Nigeria. From financial mistreatment—being offered as little as ₦30,000/month for food (in this T-Pain economy?!)—to unnecessary, non-consensual C-sections, she names the exploitative practices of individuals and institutions alike.

Her message is clear: Surrogacy is not a transaction. It’s a relationship. One that requires empathy, informed consent, and long-term support.

Whether you're a prospective surrogate, an intended parent, or a healthcare provider, this episode will challenge you to rethink everything you thought you knew about surrogacy. Listen now and be part of the conversation that centers care, dignity, and justice.

생명의 다리| A Guide to Your Sùúrùgate Journey - The One with The Sùúrùgate Team | Episode 16 (2025)

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: 생명의 다리| A Guide to Your Sùúrùgate Journey - The One with The Sùúrùgate Team | Episode 16 (2025)

I have one goal this month: demystifying surrogacy. In this episode, I’m joined by some amazing people to help me achieve just that.

Together with Olubusola Jeremiah-Yusuf, Chidinma Ewo-Mebradu, and Taiwo (my husband), we bring the perspective of medical professionals and commissioning parents. We explored what it means to pursue surrogacy ethically, the emotional realities that intended parents must prepare for, and the importance of building a strong support system. Busolami and Chidinma offered professional insights and practical guidance on navigating the process responsibly.

The highlight of this episode is the light we shine on the need to treat surrogates with dignity and fairness. Including the role of education, legal protections, emotional support, and ethical practices in shaping a positive surrogacy experience.

Taiwo shared his perspective on the importance of honest communication between partners, and I opened up about my own emotional journey as a commissioning mom—what it felt like to prepare for a child I wasn’t carrying, how I managed anxiety and grief from previous losses, and the deep trust and faith required throughout the process.

This episode is both a personal reflection and a practical guide for anyone considering surrogacy. We covered everything from preparing for parenthood and supporting surrogates to handling logistics and family dynamics.

If you’re thinking about surrogacy or currently navigating the journey, you have to listen to this conversation.

Listen to the full episode now wherever you get your podcasts.

If you’d like to connect with Busolami or Chidinma for support or guidance, here’s how to reach them:

Busolami – [olubusolayusuf@gmail.com]

Chidinma – [victoriaewomebradu@gmail.com]

If you’re thinking about surrogacy or exploring family-building options, know this: you are not alone. There’s a whole community and support network out here for you. That’s what HOPES — Helping Our People Expand Safely— is all about. Begin here:https://forms.gle/o5pbimJr1NQ9oHAY6

You can connect with Busolami and Chidinma via their socials and emails, which will be linked in the show notes.

Till the next conversation, Mosiblings, see you then!